Writer | Pattern-Detector | Think Partner

For women questioning the life they were told to want.

My writing highlights the unsaid of women’s capacity to over-function at the cost of their autonomy.

I jump into rabbit holes of mental labor, and come back with clarity.

THE BOOK

The High Cost of

Why overfunctioning women stay burned out, invisible, and too easy to need.

Being Low-Maintenance

Being “low-maintenance” sounds like a compliment. Then you realize how much work it takes to remain the woman who doesn’t need much, doesn’t ask for much, and somehow always manages to figure it out.

THINK WITH ME

You don’t need someone to tell you what to think.

Someone who can think beside you, challenge what needs challenging, catch what you’re too close to see, and help you turn all that mental clutter into something you can actually move on.

Sometimes you need to look a bit closer at the terms and conditions of your life.

I‘M EBONY

Writer, Pattern Detector, Think-Partner

I’m a people watcher with a curiosity for why we are the way we are. Seeing the patterns developed when we operate in survival mode and how we can use discernment to decide to live with more intentionality. I write about relationship patterns, old programmings, creative expression and life transitions… plus a bit of sci-fi with my wine.

I don’t have all the answers. I’m interested in better questions.

MORE ABOUT ME

THE BLOG